The
History of Ballyhagan and Richhill Meetings 1654-1793-2004
Chapter 9
Reminiscences about some Friends in the Meeting
In recording
the history of some churches, the work is simplified in that certain happenings
can be classified as taking place during the pastorate of a certain minister.
In a Friends' Meeting conditions are quite different, as each individual in
the congregation plays a vital part in the life of the meeting. There are those
who appear to take little vocal, or public part and yet their service and contribution
to the spiritual life of the group maybe incalculable. In looking back over
the last hundred years it is inevitable that several individuals must be mentioned
by name, as they seem to have occupied a more prominent role than others, whose
names are not recorded in this way and yet these un-named Friends played an
equally, valuable part in the development of the meeting and their service is
not overlooked or forgotten.
The following, letter
was written almost thirty years ago, to a Friend, in the meeting, by Edmund
Allen (1863-1951) then in his 87th year. These reminiscences carry
us back in thought to the Friends who occupied the seats in the gallery of
the meeting house more than 100 years ago.
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Eventide
Home,
Holywood,
Co. Down.
2nd 6th month, 1950
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Thanks
for your letter received this morning and kind invitation to spend the
weekend and attend the Quarterly Meeting at Richhill. I would dearly
love to do so, but the fact is that the spirit is willing but the flesh
is weak and the time has come when I have no desire to move around more
than I can possibly help..
Richhill Meeting and its surroundings have a very warm place in my heart,
for rny thoughts wander back to more:than eighty years ago, when as
a small boy I went regularly on Sunday and Thursday mornings (in the
poney gig) with my good old grandfather (98) (who
I spent my childhood with) and in imagination I can see the four Friends
who sat on the gallery at that time. The Friend on.the left was an old
man named Jacob Allen (no relatiori), who,l think resided where Jackston
Chapman now lives. Next to, him was Benjamin Mackie who was a sincere
and good old Friend, next him was Ephraim Allen(my grandfather). (98)
The fourth was Harriet Nicholson from Tallbridge. (99)
They were all old Friends, quite advanced in years and most of them
passed away about seventy years ago. My grandfather died in 1878.
Then came a younger
generation to occupy the seats on the gallery. Alexander Allen (100)
, from the Retreat, my father and mother, Ephraimi Allen and Eliza Allen
(101) , Jane Murray, (102)
and they in due.time were called away. When I came back from Australia
a younger generation had taken their places . ...... |
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Edmund
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Harriet Nicholson
of Tallbridge, referred to by Edmund Allen had earned the reputation both
within the Society of Friends, and in the country side at large, as being,
“a great woman”, (103) one to whom anyone
in trouble, pain, or distress; either mental or physical could go for help
and would not go in vain.
James, N. Richardson (104)
, towards the end of his deep yet humorous book "The Quakri at Lurgan
and Grange” (105) first published in 1877, depicts
her as a seer, to whom the valiants described in the book, should go for counsel
and advice and the words she spoke to them do not seem to be inappropriate
today -
"There dwelIs
another seer - -
In mansion fIower-embosomed
Spring, summer, winter, fall,
Harrietta Nicholsonia dwells
At bridge beside the Taul (106)
There with her daughter Jana
In mecy’s deeds her witchcraft
In friendliness her spells
To her many Quakri brethern,
The modern and the old,
To her go forth with humbled mein,
And your sad tale unfold.
Methinks I see them coming
By sheep fold and by stall,
Past the Rich-hillian orchards
Unto the seer’s hall.
Methinks I hear her warning
And words of counsel sage -
The stored and garnered wisdom
Of a long pilgrimage -
Thine Quakor,
is the ‘Stilness’
Quakor, the ‘Feeling’ thine
The Mystic Gift, unbought, unpaid,
The Gallery’s ordered line -
And thine thos note of wisdom,
That woman, with her train
Of balmier moods and gentle thoughts
Doth here co-equal reign”.
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In Edmund Allen’s reminiscences
he mentions his grandfather, Ephraim Allen, and his father, also Ephraim,
who was prominently connected with the meeting throughout his long life.
The following account is adopted
from the fuller details given in The Annual Monitor for 1917. Ephraim Allen
(died 1916, aged 88 years) was a true Friend of the old school, his ancestry
dating back almost to the beginnings of Quakerism in Ireland. He carried his
principles into every department of his life and his sterling character gained
for him the confidence and esteem of all who knew him. He was a constant and
punctual attender at Richhill Meeting. He was an elder for forty years and
Clerk to the Monthly Meeting for fifteen. Although he was never heard in the
vocal Ministry, his life bore witness to a deep inward experience of truth
which was rigidly upheld. He was made a Justice of the Peace in 1895 and he
carried out his duties with mercy and rectitude.
Apart from a short period spent in business in Dublin, all his life was spent
at home on the farm. His marriage to Ann Eliza Robinson was a singularly happy
one and her death in 1905 was a lasting sorrow to him. This marriage with
a non Friend was the first to occur within the meeting which was not followed
by disownment. The south wind was beginning to blow!
Ephraim Allen on his 80th birthday
Ephraim inherited the poetic sense in
a remarkable degree and has left behind him many poems of literary merit. His
strong love of nature and country life found clear expression in many of them.
No music appealed to him as the song of the birds appealed and he always looked
forward to the return of spring with incomparable joy. The first primrose of the
season was to him like the return of an old friend. Always an early riser, he
loved to walk through his orchards and fields and interpret God in the glories
of His creation.
Ephraim Allen wrote many poems, several of which were published. His longest poem
was called "The Song of the Cradle" (107) which
describes in narrative form the contemporary events and how it nursed three generations
of the Allen family. The following extract from this poem, describes in a graphic
way, the marriage of his father Ephraim Allen, Senior, to Ruth Johnson (another
member of the meeting), which took place at Richhill Meeting House on 15th of
11th month 1817 (in the reign of George lll).
"This youthful
Bridegroom and his Bride
No carriages these guests conveyed
No motors by skilled artists made
This mode of travelling, I may own,
To these good folk was all unknown
For in the good King George's day
Not known or heard of them were they;
But horses, one beyond a score,
Stood saddled at her father's door,
Some for the women, some for men,
And some for both, I know that then
The good old Pillion used to be
A thing that I could daily see,
For horses then were trained, I know,
To carry double, and would go
With pleasant trot and seeming ease
Where'er the rider seemed to please.
Thus on that chill November day
This bridal party went their way,
The women sat behind the men
And clasped their waists, and now and then
A well-timed social, pleasant joke
By either, or by both, were spoke;
Yes, clasped their waists, I've said, this may
Reverse the custom of the day;
But it made them feel secure
And made their balance true and sure.
Then two and two, with one conscent
They left as if on pleasure bent;
Ten dreary miles, both to and fro
This bridal party had to go.
No white robed prelate then was there
To join in one this youthful pair,
No high toned ceremonial rite
This youth and maiden did unite.
No ring was on her finger placed,
No ornaments her person graced,
But neat and simply dressed was she
As country bride might wish to be,
And well she knew the hand of art
No charm to nature could impart
Her Quakeress bonnet hid her face
From vulgar gaze, no costly lace,
No orange blossoms met the eye
Or ribbons of a gorgeous dye;
Not consecrated was the ground
No music filled the air with sound.
The maidens and the stalworth
men
Walked arm in arm a pace or two
And sat within the public view
And when a lengthened pause was made
And silence did alone pervade,
The bride and groom were seen to stand
And take each other by the hand,
And with a voice distinct and clear
Which all around might plainly hear,
Said "Ruth I take thee for my wife,
And promise from this day through life,
To loving and to faithful be,
Till death divideth thee and me;"
And ere they sat I heard at once
That she in turn made quick response,
And vowed to love, the word 'obey'
No listening ear could hear her say".
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One of Ephraim Allen's last poems was
written on his 85th birthday, 13th 10th month, 1913, and the following verses
are quoted from it -
"Now four score
years and five have flitted o'er me,
Swift as the flight of swallow on the wing
Time cannot back one vanished hour restore me,
Or from oblivion one brief moment bring.
And as in retrospect I look behind me,
With vision dim along life's trodden track,
A thousand thoughts crowd up but to remind me,
Of pleasures gone to me that come not back.
I've had my share of mirth and joy and gladness,
And known the sweets of dear domestic bliss –
I too have felt the bitter pangs of sadness,
Too oft experienced in a world like this.
Death with relentless hand my home has entered,
And snatched from me the idol of my heart,
In whose abiding love my joys were centred,
And from whose side 'twas agony to part.
And now while off life's hill-top I am gazing,
O'er a long vista of departed years,
I feel my heart a bounteous Giver praising,
Because He has given me more of smiles than tears.
And when the pale-faced messanger before me,
Shall like a spectre masked and silent stand,
May no dark cloud of doubt be hovering o'er me,
To hide the beauty of the unseen land.
Then may some door be opened
to receive me,
Some humble entrance to a home of rest,
Where nought of earth shall come to pain or grieve me
A safe abiding place among the bless'd."
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Thomas Chapman on right,
with his brother John
Thomas
Chapman, Battlehill, belonged to a family in the meeting whose members
were noted for their longevity. This may have been accounted for in a measure
by the simple lives they led, by the plain, wholesome food which they ate,
and by the avoidance of excesses in any form.
Quoting from a news item in "The Friend" (108)
"Born on the 11th day of ninth month 1820, it was an interesting event
in the history of Richhill Meeting when our dear Friend and Elder, Thomas
Chapman attained 100 years.
"On first day the 12th Thomas Chapman made a special effort and got out
to meeting, taking his usual seat in the gallery. The attendance was a 'record'
one, numbering about ninety, of whom eighteen at least bore the name Chapman.
Some ten Friends took part in the meeting, Thomas Chapman himself very correctly
and feelingly repeated the Lord's Prayer towards the close of the meeting".
Sarah Jane Chapman's (nee Potts) family, had long association
with Richhill Meeting, as her maternal grandfather was Robin Johnson who lived
in the neighbourhood of Castle Rawe. He was known to his neighbours as "Thursday
Johnson" because of his regular attendance at the mid-week Meeting for
Worship at Richhill, four miles away from his home. When his daughter Sarah
married a non-Friend, she was disowned, as was the custom of the time. Several
of the children of this marriage were sent to Brookfield school, including Sarah
Jane, who qualified as a teacher. She returned later to Brookfield as “governess"
(head teacher on girls' side), remaining in this position for eighteen years,
till her marriage to George Chapman in 1899 in Richhill Meeting House. She was
recorded as a Minister of the Gospel in the Society, and her special gift was
speaking to the children and young people of the meeting, of whom there was
a goodly number at this time. She is remembered for her clear and lively expositions,
based on the great characters and events in the Bible. One Friend who was then
about 10 years of age remembers Sarah Jane Chapman in her later years. He can,
to this day, picture her with the kindly expression on her face, giving the
impression of a saint-like quality, telling the well loved Bible stories of
David and Goliath, Daniel in the Lions Dens, Samuel and others in such an imaginative
and interesting fashion that the children were enthralled. She challenged all
to lives of true discipleship, and her various homes, all within a few miles
of Richhill were centres of evangelistic effort. Her death occurred in 1932.
(109)
In 1886 a Friend from Sibford, England, who was engaged in a clerical capacity
in The Bessbrook Spinning Co. Ltd. purchased a fruit farm and fruit preserving
business known as Fruitfield, Richhill. (110) This business
had been commenced in a small way some years previously by Robert Johnson, a
member of Richhill Meeting. Owing to rather poor health and a lack of business
acumen together with unwise speculation, the business did not prosper and finally
became insolvent. The property had to be disposed of and an arrangement made
with the creditors to pay compensation.
The usual practice amongst Friends at this period was that if a member failed
in business and was unable to pay his creditors in full they should be disowned.
This procedure was followed in this case, after the matter had been investigated
by a committee and considered at two Monthly Meetings.
Charles B. Lamb and his young wife, Charlotte Gray,
came to live at Fruitfield in the spring of 1887. Over the years, by application,
diligence and hard work he expanded and developed the business into a most
successful enterprise.
As both husband and wife came from long lines of Quaker ancestry, it was inevitable
that they became involved in the affairs of the local meeting. It was like
a new injection of life to have Charles B. and Charlotte G. Lamb, and a short
time later his brother, Richard Lamb and wife Mary and family settled in the
vicinity, joining whole heartedly in the activities of the meeting with their
gifts of service and leadership.
In 1899 Charles B. Lamb was recorded as a Minister in the Society of Friends,
he also served as Monthly Meeting Clerk and as the years passed he was called
to positions of responsibility in both Quarterly and Yearly Meeting.
Their home at Fruitfield and later at Sandymount became centres of hospitality
for visitors to the meeting, and their growing family all contributed to the
fellowship which existed within the meeting in the first decade of the new
century.
The meeting which up till now had followed the traditional Quaker pattern,
gradually became more evangelical in character, as indeed did several other
meetings in Ulster. Many of the leading members became interested in the furtherance
of Home Mission work, as carried out by the Faith Mission, or by Ulster Quarterly
Meeting Home Mission Committee (set up in 1900).
Sunday School work received an impetus by improved teaching methods. Charlotte
W. Lamb (later Peile), eldest daughter of Charles B. Lamb had from
an early age been interested in youth and Sunday School work; in order to
become better equipped and to be aware of the newer methods of teaching she
attended a course at Westhill Training College, Birmingham. She returned home
and commenced an afternoon Sunday School at her home. This school was run
on interdenominational lines and attracted large numbers of children of different
ages. This involved quite a lot of organisation such as teachers' training
classes and, of course, entertainments at Christmas. The school continued
for a number of years.
The Friends' Foreign Mission Association which had grown over the years and
was operating on at least five fields, had formed a home based supporting
organisation known as The Missionary Helpers Union. A branch was formed at
Richhill, which met monthly during the winter at different Friends' homes,
or at the Meeting House. The purpose was to create interest and give spiritual
support to the missionaries, but there was also a practical objective, as
these monthly gatherings took the form of work parties, at which both men
and women gathered. The men rolled bandages and the women made up garments
or produced some other forms of hand work, to be used in the Hospital to which
they would be sent. Richhill Meeting had a special interest in Dr. Lucy Harris,
who was a medical missionary in China and a box of prepared materials was
dispatched to her from time to time.
During the course of the evening when those who were present were busily engaged
with their hands, letters from missionaries were read, telling of their work
and witness. On other occasions a returned missionary would be present to
tell something of the field in which they served. These gatherings were social
opportunities, and were looked forward to both by old and young; they continued
to be held up to the outbreak of the first world war.
William Henry and Lucy Sinton, who lived at Tamnaghmore, Tandragee,
were members of Richhill Meeting but in 1888 they decided to have their membership
transferred to Moyallon Meeting. (111)
It was when they were members of Moyallon that William Henry Sinton became
greatly concerned about the spiritual condition of those who lived and worked
in his immediate neighbourhood, which embraced those in the adjacent village
of Laurelvale. In order to meet this need he arranged for a house on his farm
to be adapted for use as a Meeting House. A Meeting for Worship, after the
manner of Friends, was held there each Sunday morning. The evening meeting
took the form of a Mission Meeting with an arranged speaker and was from the
commencement exceptionally well attended. An afternoon Sunday School was also
held which attracted large numbers.
In seventh month 1900 Wm. H. and Lucy Sinton, together with their five children
had their membership transferred back to Richhill. (112)
Shortly afterwards a request was received from Ulster Quarterly Meeting that
the care of the Allowed Meeting at Tamnaghmore should be handed over to Richhill
Monthly Meeting and any applications for membership be made to this body. (113)
Early in 1901 a report to Monthly Meeting was received from a committee, which
had been appointed to visit Tamnaghmore. This report was to the effect that
the visit had been paid, that there were thirty or forty present, and it was
felt to be a favoured time and other Friends were encouraged to visit from time
to time. (114)
After a few years Tamnaghmore became a Preparative Meeting and a constituent
part of Richhill Monthly Meeting. (1906)
The meeting at Tamnaghmore seemed to fill a useful place in the community,
but at times its continuance was uncertain after Wm. H. and Lucy Sinton passed
away, as a lack of leadership was evident. However, a new impetus was given,
when their youngest son John Henry, and his wife, Dorothy
M. Sinton, came into rich spiritual blessing early in the 1920's.
As a result the Meeting House was enlarged to accommodate the numbers attending
the evening gatherings. A Christian Endeavour Society was commenced at this
time which proved to be a source of strength and blessing over the years to
many in the district and it still continues.

John Henry and Dorothy
M. Sinton on their Diamond Wedding Aniversary
John H. and
Dorothy M. Sinton bore vocal witness to the change that had taken place in their
lives when they responded to the claims of Christ. It became evident that both
these Friends had unusual gifts of vocal ministry; one seemed to complement
the other. Their special concern was to proclaim the Gospel of our Lord and
Saviour Jesus Christ and to encourage all who heard to an acceptance of Him.
They were both recorded as Ministers of the Gospel in our Society and they exercised
their gifts widely within the Quarterly Meeting, as well as amongst the larger
Christian Community where they became well known.
They were active workers in Ulster Quarterly Meeting Home Mission Committee
for many years. During this period they were involved in evangelism and other
forms of Christian service.
In 1935 they were appointed as delegates from Ireland Yearly Meeting to attend
Friends' Five Years Meeting, held at Richmond, Indiana, U.S.A. Following this,
doors were opened and visits paid to several Friends' Meetings in America where
they held missions. This initial visit was followed by ten others, in subsequent
years, some of which continued for twenty-three months at a stretch. The purpose
of these visits was to hold mission services in Friends' communities, in many
of the western states. The message of salvation through Christ alone, found
a ready response from many hearts, and the links with American Quakerism were
very deep and real. For them it was a joy to be closely associated, during these
visits, with R. Ernest Lamb, a former member of Richhill Meeting, who was so
widely known throughout the Five Years' Meeting. We are thankful that these
Friends are still with us; they celebrated their Diamond Wedding on 19th May,
1979.
R. ERNEST LAMB, 1887 - 1973
Perhaps one
of the best known and loved personalities amongst Quakers in the Western States
of America, in the middle of this century was a Friend who grew up in Richhill
Meeting, R. Ernest Lamb. He was the eldest son of Richard H. and Mary Lamb of
Wheatfield, Richhill.
Whilst still a very young man, Ernest left home and spent some of his formative
years in Canada and the United States and it was there that he met his future
wife, Ruby Hill. After their marriage in 1915 they returned to Ireland. Ernest
was closely involved in the management of the home farm at Wheatfield. It was
at this period he exercised his acceptable gift of vocal ministry; he also served
as clerk of the Monthly meeting and it was evident that he had rare abilities
for administration, which made him acceptable throughout the Yearly Meeting.
A wide field of service and usefulness seemed to be opening up for him in his
home country.
However, his leading was to return to America, which he did in 1922, together
with his wife and two young daughters. He linked up with Pastoral Friends in
California Yearly Meeting. It was in this enlarged sphere that his main life
work seemed to develop. He served as Pastor in several important Quaker Meetings,
eventually becoming Superintendent of California Yearly Meeting of Friends,
and later Chairman of the Mission Board of the Yearly meeting. A still wider
field of service followed as he took up important administrative appointments
under the Five Years' Meeting (115) , whose central office
was at Richmond, Indiana. Ernest was held in high esteem by the wide circle
of Friends amongst whom he served. His gifts were used to the full in promoting
and developing Quaker interests in many diverse fields.

Ernest Lamb
A book has
recently been published in America tracing in some detail the work he was enabled
to carry out by the Grace of God, which was so evident in his life. (115)
Quoting from this book we are permitted to look back to his early days and his
reminiscences of Richhill Meeting.
"Being a son of the soil Ernest not only worked on the farm but finally managed
it when his ageing father needed him. In Ernest Lamb we have witnessed the blend
of home, hard work, diligence in education and the spiritual sensitiveness that
was nurtured in an important way by the Quaker Meeting for Worship at Richhill.
From the depth of silence he rose ultimately to the stature of a world Friend.
He never forgot his debt to his boyhood Meeting.
Ernest Lamb portrays the gathered Meeting for Worship:
'Meeting, in those days was strictly segregated, the women on the right of the
central aisle and the men on the left. So far as I recall no woman Friend ever
invaded the men’s domain. Later when some marriages had recently been consummated,
the man, under authority, would cross over and sit with his bride. Since my
father occupied a seat in the gallery (facing benches) I was obliged to sit
with my mother on her side of the house. It was a red-letter day when I was
judged competent to move across the aisle and put my hat with the men's under
my seat.
Centering down in worship was always an impressive experience. As the Quaker
poet expressed it God "dropped his still dews of quietness till all our striving
ceased". Vocal ministry came out of the silence, sometimes from the body of
the Meeting, but more frequently from the gallery where some eight or ten ministers
and elders were seated. One of my favourite speakers was Sarah Jane Chapman,
who seemed to sense the spiritual needs of the young people and thus spoke to
our condition. If the Apostle Paul could have heard her, I think he would not
have prescribed silent worship for women. Quakers, however, have never taken
seriously, his admonition in that respect.
He remembered Ephraim Allen, who sat as head of the Meeting, and on whom the
assembled Friends depended in “timing" the Meeting for Worship. Friend Ephraim
seemed to know When Friends “minds were at ease" and the time had come for shaking
hands right and left in "breaking" the Meeting, yet Ernest could ‘never remember
seeing Ephraim look at his watch’”. (116) (No clock was
then installed in Meeting).
A local Friend recalls, that during one of Ernest Lamb's return visits to Ireland,
possibly in 1964, when speaking to a gathering in Richhill Meeting House, he
pointed out that the old stone steps, at the entrance door to the Meeting House,
had been worn smooth, by the feet of men and women and children who for many
generations had come here to worship God.
It was something no one else had ever noticed, or referred to, but this fact
has deep associations with our heritage at Richhill and is worth pondering over.
“If but one man or woman were raised up by His power to stand and live in the
same Spirit, that the Prophets and Apostles were in, who gave forth the Scriptures,
that man or woman should shake all the country in their profession for ten miles
around". George Fox 1652 (117)
These words of George Fox remind us of the potential influence of the individual
who is under the power and control of the Holy Spirit. How we live and act effects
others, not only in our own brief lifetime, but also through succeeding generations,
who are raised up to carry on the work and witness. This has been evident in
Richhill Meeting in a marked degree. John Walker Pelle, was
descended from a long line of Quaker ancestry in the North of England. He came
to live at Fruitfield, Richhill, after his marriage to Charlotte W. Lamb, in
1913. His quiet, faithful, and consistent life, in the home and in the Meeting,
in which he was so fully supported by his wife, had, we believe, a formative
place in the lives of the young people who were growing up at that time.
Edith Lamb, the third daughter of Charles B. and Charlotte
G. Lamb, attended Richhill Meeting from her earliest days. As a girl, she heard
and responded to the call of God. In her case it meant leaving home, training
as a Faith Mission Pilgrim and entering the Mission. Edith had a charming manner
and personality and her influence on the young people of the Meeting was considerable.
Later on, the call came to go out to Japan as a missionary, and it could be
said of her that she "was not disobedient to the heavenly vision". After returning
from Japan she and her husband, G. Burnham Braithwaite lived in England.
It was through Edith's influence and ministry, that her younger brother J.
Charles Lamb, was led into a life of commitment to Christ. He sought
to bring this transforming experience into every department of life. His service
to the Meeting included acting as Monthly Meeting Clerk and as an elder.
Over a long period "Charley" as he was known locally, so as to distinguish him
from his father, was deeply interested in the mission work carried on by Friends'
Service Council and he endeavoured to attend the council meetings in London
as frequently as possible. The particular field which claimed his support and
interest was Madagascar, and his link with this island was further strengthened
when he paid a visit there in 1950. He loved the native people, met the missionaries
and saw at first hand the various centres where they operated. Another organisation
on whose Council he served was the Faith Mission, which had his whole-hearted
support in a number of ways. Perhaps his first love was the work carried on
by The Ulster Quarterly Meeting Home Mission Committee on which he served for
many years, including a period as treasurer. The maintenance of the Sunday evening
meeting in Friends' Hall, Rathfriland, was for many years one of his concerns.
This involved providing speakers and keeping in touch with the local committee,
a service which was faithfully carried out so long as health permitted.
As was remarked at his funeral, J. Charles Lamb was no man's copy, he was a
unique character and he made an impact far and wide. He brought zest and enthusiasm
to everything he undertook. His death in 1978 followed a prolonged illness.
One source of new life which was felt in the Meeting was on account of several
Friends from England and other parts of Ireland, who settled in the vicinity
of Richhill and had their membership transferred. (118)
Besides, (in addition to those already mentioned) other local people were led
to join in worship with Friends, some of whom later on came into full membership.
Abraham Loney and his brother Joseph Loney
are typical examples. Both these brothers had had a spiritual experience before
commencing to attend Meeting. Later on they applied for membership and were
warmly received and given the right hand of fellowship. From time to time they
were led to participate in the vocal ministry and later on when they set up
homes of their own, it seemed the right thing for their wives and families to
join the Meeting.
Towards the end of last century, a boy, or rather a young man grew up in Richhill.
His father was a member of another denomination in the village. Living near
to this family, was an elderly Quakeress of the old school. She wore the Quaker
garb and was most particular as to what she said or promised. Her name was Anne
Haydock. The young man in question, was profoundly influenced by Anne Haydock
and he formed a secret plan to see for himself what a Quaker Meeting was like,
and so he plucked up courage to attend. He told the writer, that the first time
he went, the Meeting had already gathered, so with considerable trepidation
he ventured to turn ?the handle of the door, walk in and take his seat among
the assembled worshippers. He was welcomed to the Meeting and returned again
on other occasions, soon afterwards he went to Belfast to gain further experience
in his chosen trade of Cabinet-Maker. When lodging in Belfast, he found his
way to the large Friends Meeting in Frederick Street. It was here that an Elder
in the Meeting noticed him in the hall, and spoke to him, enquired his name,
where he was from, and where he was staying in Belfast. When he had answered
these enquiries, this Elder whose name was John Pim, said “I will go with thee
to thy lodgings". So they set out after Meeting to walk to where the young man
was staying. When they arrived at the house, John Pim said “I am interested
in this young man. Could thee show me his room?" So he went with the landlady
and inspected the room and had a general look over the house. He said he was
satisfied that it was a suitable place for the young man to stay. He told the
landlady to look after this young man well, as he, John Pim, was interested
in him and might call again. Thomas William McDonagh, for this
was the young man's name, never forgot the kindly practical interest which was
shown to him, a young stranger from the country who had attended the Meeting
for the first time. During the years spent in Belfast, he continued to attend
the Meeting and the Adult School.
When in Belfast, he met and later married a young woman called Madeline Ross.
When he returned to Richhill to commence business on his own account, Madeline
joined with him in attending the Meeting. Later on they both applied for membership.
Madeline, although brought up in another denomination, became a regular and
devoted attender of both the First Day and Fifth Day Meetings for worship and
she is remembered as one who adorned the doctrine of Christ in an unique way.
Henry Pearson was a member whose antecedents went back for
many generations, in fact to Ballyhagan days. From young manhood, Henry was
known as a well concerned Friend, and his life might be summed up in the words
of Whittier ?
"The Quaker of the olden time
How calm and firm and true
Unspotted by its wrongs and crime
He walked the dark earth through" (119)
He enjoyed reading old Friends' books, of which he acquired a considerable number.
One felt that had he been called on to endure persecution or imprisonment for
his faith, he would have been prepared to suffer martyrdom, rather than recant
one iota, or violate a principle.
When taking his seat in meeting his hat remained on his head and was only removed
when he felt the presence of the Holy Spirit - he was known to put it back on
if some message was not in "right ordering".
Henry was specially drawn to those members of our Society who held similar views
to his own, irrespective of where they lived. From time to time he felt called
to visit groups or individuals which led to visits to the United States (twice),
to the only known Friend in Iceland, also to Norway and Germany (without knowledge
of any language but English) and several Visits to England and Scotland. On
his return home, he loved to tell of the interesting Individuals he had met.
He was apprehensive that The Society of Friends was loosing their distinctive
message and witness, and were becoming more and more influenced by what other
Churches thought and taught. He thoroughly disapproved of singing, especially
of congregational singing, and would refuse to accept a hymn book, if offered
one, at an ,evening Meeting, where singing was a feature of the service. He
was fearless in letting it be known where he stood in these matters, and he
was respected for displaying the courage of his convictions. Henry was in a
way slightly eccentric, but he was loved and respected by those who knew him
best. His death occurred in 1951.
NOTES ON REFERENCES
(98)
Ephraim Allen Snr. 1797-1878 married Ruth Johnson. Castlerawe.
(99) Harriet Nicholson (nee Greer) 1807-1888 M. John Nicholson,
Tallibridge, 1788.1859.
(100) Alexander D. Allen, The Retreat, Armagh (1816-1900).
(101) Ephrahaim Allen J.P. 1828 - 1916; Ann Eliza Robinson
1836 - 1905, Grange. Cottage, Portadown.
(102) Jane Murray, 1826-1908, Tallbridge, daughter of
John and Harriet Nicholson.
(103) 2 Kings 4: 8.
(104) James N. Richardson (1846 - 1921), Bessbrook, son
of John Grubb Richardson, Moyallon House.
(105) Story in verse in which certain Ulster Quakers are
portrayed. Modelled on Macaulay's "Lays of Ancient Rome".
(106) River Tall was a tributary of River Blackwater rising
near Richhill which flows into Lough Neagh.
(107) Published 1912.
(108) "The Friend" 1st October 1920.
(109) Based on an account in "Friends' Witness"
Fourth month, 1932by Charles 8. Lamb VOL XXV No. 4.
(110) Genealogies of the Harris and Lamb Families.
(111) Minute Richhill Monthly Meeting held 6th 9th month
1888.
(112) Ibid - 5th 7th month 1900.
(113) Ibid - 7th 2nd month 1901.
(114) Ibid - 7th 3rd month 1901.
(115) P. Ernest Lamb, Irish American Quaker. The life,
work and wit of a World Friend by Errol T. Elliott 1977.
(116) Ibid - Pages 11 - 12.
(117) Christian Faith and Practice in the experience of
the Society of Friends. London. Paragraph 393.
(118) (M) William W Davidson - Late Headmaster, Brookfield,
School, also his wife Sarah Jane and daughter Margaret W
(E) Sarah Jane Chapman (nee Poots) - from Brookfield Meeting
- wife of George Chapmen. Sarah Sophia Dawson - from Cootehill. Edith E. Lamb
(sister of Charles 8. Lamb) - from Sibford, Nr. Banbury, England.
(M) Joseph Spink Gray and his wife Mary - from York, England.
(O) Henry Hardcastle - from York, England - also wife
(O) Edith Mary and family.
(119) Poetical Works of John Greenleaf Whittier "A
Quaker of Olden Time".
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